Hey Coach, You’re An Asshole!

After the BBC Panorama documentary about abusive swim coaches hits the screen this evening, I have to concur, some coaches are assholes.

I’ve met a few of them in my life, and yes it’s true, some coaches need to be in jobs that only includes garbage collection and not interacting with youngsters.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cn4gmm2zv8no

If that link doesn’t work the full wording is: BBC Panorama; The Dark Side Of Swimming Clubs.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002ch2f

It is a sad thing when ‘the ends’ always justify the ‘the means’. So many coaches have used the success of a few of their swimmers to justify their bullying and abuse. It makes me think of Stanley Kubrick’s movie Full Metal Jacket. The character Gomer Pyle can’t do all the things the Drill Sargent asks so he is mercilessly bullied. Nobody remembers the kids who don’t make it, they are simply fodder. Left with their depression, in a ‘world of shit’. A world of shit with a hint of chlorine.

Shaming kids on their weight to keep them slim is almost as bad as starving someone, but if it’s possible, even worse. If mental strategies are used to shame someone to not eat and the end result is mental illness, it is abuse. Abuse that is carried into post-swimming life. Mental health struggles can drag on for long periods, so often it causes depression. That then, very often, leads to suicidal thoughts, in some cases suicide. So yes, coach, you are an asshole.

I’ve heard a coach say to me that bulimia is a good way to keep swimmers thin. I left that program in disgust.

I’ve heard of coaches who kept their swimmer in deep water and not allow them to stop…for hours. But the end result was an Olympic gold…but the coach is still an asshole.

I’ve heard of coaches locking the doors to the pool to not allow entry if a swimmer was late. And subsequently changing that tact because of a car accident whilst a swimmer was trying to not be late.

I’ve heard of coaches training swimmers so hard they can not recover and become chronically fatigued. So fatigued that they did not recover for years. In one case… decades. This was reported in Swimming World magazine and celebrated! A chronically fatigued swimmer, who couldn’t cross her living room, finally got herself back to health and swam in a masters meet. A success story. Like beating someone to the verge of death and sending flowers to them in the hospital when they’d recovered.

So … the long arm of the law will be coming to get these abusive coaches. Their time is nigh. Unless you move to a country that isn’t worried about such things, then you can probably keep doing what you’ve been doing.

Unknown's avatar

About Coach Gary

I competed in the 1988 Olympics in Seoul representing Canada and coached in the 2000 and 2004 Olympics for Great Britain. I have a degree in History and a minor degree in Psychology from University of Calgary. I have travelled extensively and have been very lucky to see so much of the world while representing Canada and Great Britain at swimming competitions. I am very proud of the fact that I coached a swimmer to become number one in the world in the fastest swimming race in 2002. I pride myself in my ability to find new and interesting ways to teach swimming. I am an accomplished artist specialising in sculpture, I have another blog called 'swimmingart' where I publish some of my swimming drawings. I have three young children; all boys. I have recently taken up painting and yoga....but not at the same time. All of my writing is AI free. I make my own errors and am happy to do that. I am not perfect because being human is not perfect. You can see my carving work at: https://wwwoodart.wordpress.com/2024/03/18/wood-spirit-walking-stick/ And my paintings and drawings at: https://swimmingart.wordpress.com
This entry was posted in General Knowledge on swimming. Bookmark the permalink.

Leave a comment